Standing in the In-Between: Honor the Space Before the Next Becoming
There is a moment — soft, often unnoticed — where what was begins to loosen, and what will be has not yet arrived.
This is the in-between.
Not the old story.
Not the next version.
Just the space where you’re no longer who you were… and not yet who you’re becoming.
It may feel like stillness. Confusion. Even a pause that stretches too long.
But it’s sacred.
This is the chrysalis — not the flight.
We’re taught to rush through this space. To name it, fix it, move beyond it.
But what if this pause holds its own kind of becoming?
What if the truth of who you are is not waiting on the other side of this —
but alive, right here, in the tension of not-knowing?
This isn’t limbo.
It’s preparation.
It’s a revelation in slow motion.
Let this space soften you.
Let it reorient your compass.
Let it ask something deeper of you.
Catalytic Questions to Carry Into the In-Between:
- What part of me is unraveling — not in failure, but in readiness?
- What am I being asked to release… without yet knowing what will replace it?
- Who am I, when I’m not performing clarity?
- Can I trust that something real is forming in the quiet?
You don’t have to name this moment.
Just be in it.
Sometimes the next becoming doesn’t arrive with a plan —
only a breath.
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